Usibye gukina, igare ryabana rikora kandi imibiri yabana icyarimwe.Abana bafite imyaka 5-12 bagomba guherekezwa numubyeyi mugihe batwaye. Niba dukeneye guhitamo igare kumwana wacu, kwirinda ni ibi bikurikira:
1.Iyo umwana wawe atwaye igare, menya neza kwambara ingofero nibice birinda.
2.Kwemeza umutekano nigare rya gare yawe: Guhitamo igare rifite ireme ryiza kandi ryiza ryumutekano kugirango umwana wawe arinde umutekano. Muri icyo gihe, kugenzura uburyo bwo guhagarara no gufata feri ya gare niba ari ibisanzwe, kwemeza ko umwana ashobora kuyigenzura byoroshye.
3.Guhindura uburebure n'inguni ya gare:
Guhindura uburebure bwigitereko, nu mfuruka yimodoka ya gare ukurikije uburebure nimyaka yumwana kugirango umenye neza ko umwana ashobora kuyigenderaho neza.
4.Bwira abana bacu ubumenyi bwinshi bwumutekano: Mbere yuko abana bagenda, ababyeyi bagomba kubwira abana babo ubumenyi bwumutekano, kugirango bamenye gukoresha igare neza kugirango birinde impanuka.
5. Irinde kugendera ahantu hateye akaga: Hitamo ahantu hahanamye, mugari, hatarimo inzitizi kugirango umwana wawe agende, kandi wirinde kugendera mumihanda ihanamye yimisozi miremire, mumihanda migufi, cyangwa ahantu huzuye abantu.
6.Ntukemere ko umwana wawe arangara mugihe atwaye: Ntukarangaze umwana wawe mugihe ugenda, nko kumva umuziki, kureba terefone zabo, nibindi, kugirango wirinde impanuka.
7.Ntukemere ko abana bawe bashiraho cyangwa basenya igare bonyine. Irinde gukomeretsa umwana wawe.
Muri rusange , ni ngombwa kurinda umutekano wabo n’umutekano. Kimwe mu bintu by'ingenzi ni ukureba uburyo uhitamo igare rikwiye ku mwana wawe. Igare rinini rizemeza neza ko umwana wawe ashobora kugera kuri pedale hamwe nu ntoki neza, bikagabanya ibyago byimpanuka. Byongeye kandi, ni ngombwa kwemeza ko umwana wawe yambara ingofero igihe cyose batwaye igare. Ingofero byagaragaye ko igabanya ibyago byo gukomeretsa mumutwe mugihe haguye cyangwa kugongana. Kwigisha umwana wawe tekinike yamagare, nko gukoresha ibimenyetso byamaboko no kubahiriza amategeko yumuhanda, bizanabafasha kurinda umutekano mumuhanda. Ubwanyuma, kugenzura feri ya gare, amapine, nibindi bikoresho witonze, bizemeza ko igare rikomeza kumera neza, ritanga umutekano no kugenzura umwana wawe mugihe ugenda. Dukurikije aya mabwiriza yumutekano, turashobora kwemeza ko umwana wawe yishimira igihe cyo gutwara.